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Love, Without Limits

Bebu is more than a dating app. It's a sanctuary for deep emotional connection. Find your partner, find your community, and experience relationships built on empathy.

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Real Connections

Where real people find real love

From first messages to forever partners — see how people around the world are turning matches into meaningful relationships.

Couple on a city date
Friends becoming more than friends
Coffee date laughter
Holding hands at sunset
Group meetup in a café
Intimate conversation at home
Smiling profile photo
Joyful portrait
Couple walking in nature
Happy woman smiling
Profile of a man in city
Woman laughing outdoors
Couple at a rooftop bar
Beach date
Friends laughing at brunch
City lights date night
Couple on a city date
Friends becoming more than friends
Coffee date laughter
Holding hands at sunset
Group meetup in a café
Intimate conversation at home
Smiling profile photo
Joyful portrait
Couple walking in nature
Happy woman smiling
Profile of a man in city
Woman laughing outdoors
Couple at a rooftop bar
Beach date
Friends laughing at brunch
City lights date night

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(02) Why Bebu

Emotional intelligence,built into the algorithm.

Deep Matching
Central user profile

You

82% emotional match

Match suggestion profile
Calm • Secure
Match suggestion laughing
Playful • Open
Gentle smiling match
Reflective • Kind
Match chatting at home
Deep Listener
Shared values
High compatibility

See beyond surface-level swipes

Bebu looks at empathy, conflict styles, communication patterns, and attachment needs — not just photos and prompts — to introduce you to people who really fit your emotional world.

Emotional Match Score
89% Top 5% compatible
Green Flag Signals
12 Communication, empathy
What we prioritize
Emotional safety Honesty & clarity Shared intentions
Safety First
24/7 Trust & Safety

Safety that actually feels safe

Photo verification, behavior monitoring, and consent-first prompts keep your experience grounded in respect, not risk.

  • Real-time flagging for harmful language
  • One-tap block & report on every screen
  • Transparency on what’s shared and what’s private
Conversation Coaching
AI-assisted intros

Never send another dry opener

Get context-aware prompts that help you start meaningful conversations based on what you both care about.

Suggested opener

“Your photos give such a calm energy. What does a perfect slow Sunday look like for you?”
For every kind of connection
Dating • Friends • Community

Romantic, platonic, or still figuring it out

Choose what you’re open to — dating, friendships, mindfulness buddies, queer community and more — and Bebu adjusts your matches in real time.

Slow-burn dating Accountability partners New in town Long-distance friendly

(03) Love stories

Built on honesty, stayed for the softness.

Every match on Bebu is a conversation between nervous systems — not just two profiles. Hear from people who let themselves be fully seen.
Couple at rooftop bar

Maya & Jules

Met on “Soft Sunday” mode

“We both had anxiety about dating apps. Bebu’s pace settings and emotional check-ins helped us move slowly — voice notes, late-night calls, then finally meeting at a tiny jazz bar. Two years later, we’re still using the app’s prompts to talk about the heavy stuff.”

Dating • 2 years Verified Match
Friends at café

Tariq & Leo

Matched for “New in Town” friends

“We both moved cities for work and didn’t want to start over alone. We set Bebu to ‘friendship-focused’ and found each other over a shared love of bad sci‑fi movies. Now we host a monthly game night for other Bebu people.”

Friendship • 11 months Group mode
Couple on beach video calling

Riya & Sam

Long-distance turned real

“We lived 9000 km apart. Bebu’s scheduled call reminders and ‘how are you really?’ check-ins helped us stay consistent. When we finally met on that beach, it felt like we were just continuing the same conversation.”

Long-distance • 8 months Call + Chat

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You deserve a space where your heart feels understood.

Download Bebu to meet people who care about emotional safety, deep conversations, and building something that actually lasts.

Free to download • No ads • Built with mental health experts and relationship therapists

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Alex • 29

“Here for slow, intentional connection.”

“I’m free this Sunday afternoon for a call if you are. Zero pressure — we can just talk about our favorite comfort shows.”

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